You don't choose Love. Love chooses you.

(some excerpts from: Simple Truths by Kent Nerburn).

Love: It is a mystery why we fall in love. It is a mystery how it happens. It is a mystery when it comes. It is a mystery why some loves grow and why other loves fail. You can analyze this mystery and look for reasons and causes, but you will never do any more than take the life out of the experience.

Love is more than the sum of the interests and attractions and commonalities that two people share. And just as life itself is a gift that comes and goes in its time, the coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift that cannot be questioned in its ways. When love finds you, feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person who brought it to you. Give it to others who seem poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in any way you can.

Marriage: Some times marriage seems easier to understand for what it cuts out of our lives than for what it makes possible within our lives. Take time to choose a partner carefully and well. Then the real miracle of of marriage can take place in your life.

If you believe in your heart that you have found someone with whom you are able to grow, if you have sufficient faith that you can resist the endless attraction of the road not taken and the partner not chosen, if you have the strength to embrace the cycles and seasons that your love will experience, then you may be ready to seek the miracle that marriage offers. If not, then wait. The easy grace of a marriage well made is worth your patience.

During our coaching sessions we will discuss practical ways to address the relationships in your life. I have an action oriented methodology to tackle this sensitive issue in life. Don't forget its your life and you dictate how it shapes up; you are the one who writes the script. You are the BOSS. Please contact me to get started with your FREE session.